Memorial
Emily Codispoti - 1921-1997
 
After a year and a half of fighting kidney disease, my mom died. I was so lucky to be the daughter she lived closest to during this last year. She got to know my kids well, and they got to love her. And I got to be the one that she talked to as she prepared for this final passage.

It was my mom that first taught me to sew, to embroider, to crochet. One of her last gifts to me was a set of four "flour sack" dishtowels that she embroidered. She never did like cross-stitch, though. She said that was my domain.

Below is the obituary that I wrote for the papers. It only tells a little bit about the woman I knew, and call Mom. I do miss her so!

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Cameo's Mom, Emily Codispoti




Emily Marie Codispoti, 76, Hayden, died Sunday December 28, 1997, at Sacred Heart Medical Center after a prolonged illness.

She was born May 14, 1921 in Chicago, IL to Bertha (Hoffman) and Edwin Steinbrecher. She spent her early years in Chicago, working with her parents in their family-owned Ben Franklin Store. She moved to Burlington, IA during the Great Depression and graduated from Burlington High School in 1939. Emily attended Southern Illinois State Teacher's College in Charleston, IL graduating in 1944. She then had an early career as a high school teacher of Mathematics and Physical Education in Bradley, IL.

Emily met her future spouse, Tony, at a USO dance at Chanute Field during World War II. They corresponded faithfully during Tony's tour of duty in the south seas, and were married following the war in August, 1946. They honeymooned in southern California, then stayed there to raise a family of eleven children.

For twelve years Emily was a homemaker while Tony worked as a sales representative and supervisor for Standard Brands, Inc. in the Los Angeles area. For the following eighteen years Emily and Tony operated a "Mom and Pop" pizza operation, Giovanni's Pizza, in Fullerton, CA (Orange County). The family moved to Moscow, ID in 1977 where Emily worked toward a Master's Degree in Early Childhood Education at the University of Idaho. In 1981 Emily opened her own daycare center in downtown Moscow at the old Grange Building, Emily's KinderHaven. She operated this business for 10 years. She moved to the Coeur d'Alene area in 1996.

Emily is survived by her husband of 51 years, Tony Codispoti and ten children: Eleanore Neidiger of Pullman, WA; Paul Codispoti of Fullerton, CA; David Codispoti of Garden Grove, CA; Annette Codispoti of San Diego, CA; Janet Codispoti of Fullerton, CA; Margaret Davaz of Post Falls, ID; Mark Codispoti of Bothell, WA; Jon Codispoti of Whittier, CA; Barry Codispoti of Fullerton, CA; Burt Codispoti of McKinnleyville, CA; and 18 grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her son, Carl Codispoti in 1989.

A memorial service was held at Emmanuel Lutheran Church in Moscow, ID on Saturday, January 3, 1998 at 1pm.

Memorials may be sent to:
The American Cancer Society,
Idaho Division, Inc.
2676 Vista Ave.
P. O. Box 5386
Boise, Idaho 83705
(208) 343-4609

Online donations over a secure website can be made at:
http://www.cancer.org/bottomgiving.html
Click on "Memorial Donation" in the left column.


Posted January 13, 1998