All About Round Robins
 


So, just what is a Counted Cross-Stitch Round Robin? That was the focus of the Stitch Chats the week of Aug. 31, 1995 - Sept. 1, 1995. Following is a summary gleaned from the chats, compiled by Cameo and Susan Carlson.


Round Robin Basics

A Round Robin works like this ... several folks work on each other's cross-stitch pieces. You begin by dividing your fabric into squares with basting stitches, each about 4 or 5 inches large. You pick a theme. Then each RR member stitches a design in one of the squares ... mailing off to the next person at the end of the month. When your piece returns home, you each have the work of all the stitchers in your group.

Robins usually have 4, 6, 9 or 12 people in each group, so the fabric is divided into the same number of squares as folks participating. So, if there are nine folks in the RR, each will be stitching nine different squares (their own and one on each of the eight others) on nine different themes/projects. Some Robins, such as one with an Alphabet theme, might have 13 members, each doing two squares, two letters of the alphabet. Some Robins are done with bookmarks or ornaments, so the number of participants can vary widely. In one ornament Robin, each stitcher is stitching two ornaments to send to the next person on the list.

Some Robins ask for an up-front fee. (One stitcher had a $5.00 fee) so that the Robin leader could cover costs of mailing, photocopying letters, instructions, addresses, etc. It is hoped by some that by having an up-front fee, the commitment would be more solid.


Hints When Signing Up For One

1. Sign up for one at a time. Susan signed up for two that were to end in June and two in July and September (counted on the first two to end on time). She then had four going at once, a bookmark swap, and an ornament exchange to do all at once!

2.

If you pick charts don't pick really hard ones. Pick one that can be done in a few days.

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Keep everyone appraised about where the Robin is and when it is sent and if you liked working on it.

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If there is a problem and you can't complete and mail the project in the month's time, e-mail the Robin leader, the owner of the project, and the person to receive it next. Communication is the key!

5.

Play by the rules... follow instructions... deadlines... commitments!

6.

Add a welcome letter when sending your Robins. This way the other stitchers know a little about you. It's really wise to keep in contact with all stitchers involved in your project. E-mail each of them ... asking how things are going ... like small chat! That way you can get the feel of things. It's worth the e-mail or a postcard!


Finding Charts

Some stitchers send charts with their fabric. Others only pick a theme and let the other stitchers find a chart to fit the theme. Where to find charts for another's theme? Try looking through old magazines. Of course, it's also an excuse to go "XS Shopping"!


Level Of Expertise

Many of the horror stories heard in chat had to do with stitchers participating in a Robin who were at different levels of experience. It is very discouraging to high caliber stitchers to get in a Robin with a beginner. And it's intimidating to beginners to get in a group with experienced stitchers. It is highly recommended that when joining a Robin, to be specific about your level of expertise. Stitchers with fairly equal levels of experience can then be in a Robin together. That way no one is disappointed. Usually a Robin will be specified for aida or linen.

Following are comments from the chatters:

* BabyGeorge: Haji, when we signed up, we signed up for a "beginner robin". This meant that the fabric had to be aida and the stitching expertise didn't have to be there.

* Bejoyce: Mine was supposed to be "for experienced stitchers only" and this person tried some advanced techniques on my robin--and she wasn't up to it!

* BSchult359: Isn't there a way to classify stitchers on the Robins? How about the "*" system Cross Stitch & Country Crafts (now known as Cross Stitch and Needlework) uses? I can see there might be a problem when someone is working on linen and the next person doesn't know how to stitch on linen...


The Negatives

When communication breaks down, and life activities or unforeseen circumstances get in the way of stitching commitments, Round Robins can go sour. One gal's mom died and she got a job promotion. Another gal committed suicide. Here are some other things to watch out for when joining a Robin.

Here are more comments from the chatters:
1. Some members have reported never having their pieces returned to them. Other stitchers have had their Robins lost in the mail. "I had one Robin package get stolen from a mailbox! Very sad! It was a pansy project!" (GALLOJO1)

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Poor stitching quality. WILD WES 9 bemoaned, "I remember a few Robins that I got back that really shocked me. Knots tied all over the place, 20 space carry-overs. ... I guess its just a chance you take. Eventually I got to know many of the stitchers and their work." Hajer added, "Not sure if I'd want knots on my piece."

3.

People who don't fulfill their obligations, or they send the Robin off late. KarenK2683 wrote: "We had someone who sat on projects and missed mailing dates and then didn't end up stitching on three of our pieces."
TrinaSteff added: "I'm looking at one that only one person stitched on before the group disbanded."

4.

Finding time to work on other projects.

5.

Backwards stitching ... when you find that one stitcher crosses this way first \ and then comes back and crosses this way / ... when the rest of the Robin is done in the opposite direction. (No, it's not wrong, just different from the rest of the piece, so stands out.)


The Positives

The overwhelming positive reaction is that the stitchers involved in the Robins become quite close. One stitcher noted that she enjoys Robins because this way she can stitch charts she would probably never do for herself. Here are some stories:

BabyGeorge: when one gal lost her Mom, the other three stitched a small Robin for her with the saying "When someone you love becomes a memory, the Memory becomes a treasure." ... our group is four and we're talking about doing another Robin when things settle down!

Bejoyce: I guess I should say, on the plus side, that the social contacts from Robins are great and lasting!


Sending Through The Mail

Here are some comments about sending the Robins:

* BabyGeorge: We must put our stitching in Zip-lock plastic bags (to prevent rain or water from damaging them) and then we send them certified at a minimum. Some of the gals insured them (to use the insurance money as a bribe for us to stitch again in case the Robin got lost in the mail!). Another reason we use certified mail is that it needs a signature! We're worried about mail disappearing from the doorstep. Another thing we did with our Robin - we enclosed a piece of paper asking for the name of the pattern and where it appeared.

* BabyGeorge: The first time I got the Robin, I didn't hear the mailman knock at the door. When I heard him leave, I got my mail and saw the slip that I had a package! I got in my car and chased the mailman down the street so I could get the Robin! I jumped in my car!!! I was frantic!!!

* Bejoyce sent hers in a jet-pack padded envelope.

* DragonFyr mailed from a mailbox once, and it never reached its destination.


Themes

Anything goes! These themes were suggested:
Alphabets, Angels, Animals, Baby stuff, Band samplers, Birds, Bookmarks, Butterflies, Cats, Christmas, Clowns, Country, Cows, Dogs, Fantasy, Flowers / floral, Geometric, Halloween, Hearts, Herbs, Jewish holidays, Kitchen, Loony Tunes, Mickey Mouse and friends, Medieval, Mourning, Native American, Noah's Ark, Opera, Patriotic, Pooh, Quilt blocks, Santas, School days, Sea Shore, Shepherd's Bush, Tea Time, Teddy bears, Toys, Victorian, Welcomes.


Time Frame

It is very important that stitchers keep to the schedule originally set up when the Round Robin is organized. Usually, each stitcher has a month to stitch the square and pass the piece on to the next stitcher. One stitcher noted, "It's taken me as long as two weeks, as little as a weekend."


What to do with Your Finished Robins

* BabyGeorge hopes to hang her "Tea Time" Robin in her kitchen.

* Bejoyce has one that's "so terrible I wouldn't consider putting any money into framing it, but can't bear the thought of tossing it! The other is 6 ovals waiting to be made into a Xmas tree skirt—some year!"

* Cynthia564 has her gorgeous Jewish holiday banding Robin hanging on her wall.


Organizing A Robin

Anyone can organize a Round Robin, but the best leaders seem to have these qualities:

1. Great at keeping in touch with all Robin participants.

2.

Organized

3.

Ability to manage complaints with tact and grace.

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Flexibility in being able to find replacement stitchers for those participants who find they must drop out of the group.

5.

Even MORE dedicated to the Robin than the rest of the group.

* NancyfrMo organized a Xmas ornament Robin and had about 30 ladies from all over respond. It started in early August.

* WILD WES 9 has been involved in Robins where the leader requests that the theme you choose allows the stitchers to be able to complete their segment in only one weekend, even though she gets a month to complete the square. She liked the idea, even though the rules seemed a bit constricting, because they are sometimes what is necessary to get and keep things going. WILD WES 9 tried to organize a Robin of her own, but found that wasn't to her liking. She felt as if she'd stepped on too many toes.


Should You Consider Giving A Round Robin A Try?

A Round Robin might not be your cup of tea if you have trouble committing time (especially on someone else's schedule) or you don't like to stitch under pressure. But now more Stitchers are thinking of trying out a Round Robin after learning more about them at our chat. Are you ready to try?


Where To Find More (Ongoing) Information

To find the Round Robin bulletin boards on America Online:

Keyword: SEW, go to Needlecrafts Board, go to Browse Folders go to X-Stch Round Robins

Contact Carol Sutcliff who organizes MANY, MANY Round Robins for our enjoyment.


Copyright © 1995-2000 by Margaret M. Davaz, aka CameoRoze.

Written for the purpose of informing and stimulating the creativity in other lovers of counted cross-stitch. Permission is granted to redistribute this article in its entirety for noncommercial use provided that this copyright notice is not removed or altered and that no portion of this work is sold either by itself or as part of a larger work without the express written permission of the author.


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